When Progress Makes OCD Panic: Why Symptoms Spike Right Before They Get Better


In my latest podcast episode, we talk about one of the most confusing and discouraging moments for parents raising a child with OCD, when things seem to get worse right as you start doing the right things.

Many parents interpret a sudden spike in distress, anger, or compulsions as a sign that therapy is not working. But often, this increase in symptoms is actually a sign that OCD feels threatened.


When OCD accommodations are reduced or exposures begin, OCD does not quietly step aside, it escalates. This episode explains why that happens and what it means for your child’s recovery.


If you have ever thought, “We were doing better, why is this suddenly worse?” this episode will help you understand what is really happening and how to stay the course with confidence and compassion.

As a Parent, Do you Know Enough About OCD?

The truth is, most therapists aren’t properly trained to recognize, assess, or treat OCD—yet many still believe they are. That’s a concerning reality. It’s why, as parents, it’s so important for us to understand how to support our kids at home and how to identify a therapist who’s truly qualified to help.

In Less Than Three Hours You’ll Be Ahead of Most Therapists…


In my course, How to Teach Kids to Crush OCD, you’ll gain the foundational skills you need to:

1. Avoid unintentionally reinforcing your child or teen’s OCD

2. Create a home environment that supports real progress

3. Use ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention)—the gold-standard approach for OCD—right at home


With therapy sessions often costing $300 or more, it’s important to know how to spot a qualified therapist and feel confident supporting your child in between sessions. And if rising costs have forced you to pause therapy altogether, you’re not alone.


The good news? You don’t have to wait to start giving your child evidence-based, clinically sound support.

OCD and ADHD: What parents need to know

Does your child struggle with both OCD and ADHD? Research shows that these conditions often overlap, creating unique challenges in focus, behavior, and emotional regulation. Fortunately, both OCD and ADHD are highly treatable when you know what you're dealing with and how to find the right care. Read more


NOCD Therapists specialize in treating OCD in children, teens, and adults. They accept most insurance plans and involve the whole family in treatment, empowering you and your loved ones to more effectively support your child. Book a free call to learn more.

Take care,
Natasha


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Hi! I'm Natasha Daniels

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