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The biggest support you can give your child with anxiety or OCD is being a solid anchor when they are struggling. But this is WAY easier said than done. You are not a blank slate, and when you go to anchor your child, you need to be grounded yourself. Without being fully grounded, we are likely to add more overwhelm to an already overwhelming situation. There are a few key areas that prevent us from being grounded when our kids are struggling: -How you were raised directly impacts your...
One of the hardest parts about trying to help our kids with anxiety or OCD is the level of exhaustion and overwhelm it can create within us. And this isn’t just a “I should take care of me” email. Our well-being directly impacts our effectiveness in how we show up for our child’s anxiety or OCD. It also impacts the well-being of you and your entire family. But we are all human. We all have a rollercoaster of emotions, especially when it comes to anxiety and OCD. One of the best ways we can...
My child was in a rage due to anxiety and OCD. I instantly felt rage stirring inside me too. I felt my body tense, my anger rising as I watched him on the couch imploding. And then… I tuned in to ME. I asked myself, “Why are you so angry right now?” and I gave myself a raw, authentic answer: I’m doing everything I possibly can to improve his mental health. WHY can’t he do his part and improve? (I know, not a rational thought). I am tired and want this to end already. I want to just be able to...