The #1 Overlooked Key to Helping Kids with Anxiety & OCD


Think back to the last time your child, teen or young adult was having an issue with anxiety or OCD. What was the biggest struggle for you.


We are often so focused on what they will or won’t do in the moment, that we forget our part.


Did you feel overwhelmed? Irritated? Depressed? Hopeless? Anxious? Numb?

As parents, we show up with our own feelings and that has a huge impact on how we respond.


For example…


If I’m irritated, I’m more likely to respond with annoyance and insensitivity that will most likely trigger my child’s feelings of guilt and shame.


If I’m anxious, I might share my what-if’s and flood them with fear to improve.


If I’m hopeless, I might just cave and give in to their anxiety or OCD, because I feel like, what’s the point anyway.


Our mood and triggers directly impact how we coach our kids through their anxiety or OCD
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And it matters…


How we interact with our child’s anxiety or OCD not only impacts our wellbeing long-term, it impacts their progress as well.


You are with your kids 24/7 and there is no one else who spends as much time coaching them through their anxiety and OCD struggles, than YOU.


And yet, many of us focus on what our child should do, and never focus on our part. The part we can actually control.


I have seen first hand the power of working on my own triggers and emotions. I have seen the impact on my kids when I’m intentional and focused when I respond to their anxiety or OCD.


I have seen my kids take more ownership of their issues because I’m not showing up with rage or anxiety. I have seen them feel more confident and hopeful, because I’m not bombarding them with what they should be doing.


I have worked hard on recognizing my own emotional state, grounding myself and then focusing on what they need from me in that moment. It is a daily practice, but the overall calm in my house has been significant.


I’m so passionate about how this approach can impact the wellbeing of the whole family, I wanted to share it with you!


That’s why I created my FREE series to teach you exactly how to do this for yourself and your family.


The first of three videos starts this Thursday! When you register you’ll have access to the series website and the videos as they are released.


I’ll also be doing bonus live classes during the series and you can catch the replays of those too!


I look forward to seeing you inside the series!

Take care,
Natasha

PS. Don’t forget to register for the free series here.


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Hi! I'm Natasha Daniels

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