Avoid These 4 Communication Stoppers When Helping a Child with OCD


When you’re trying to support a child with OCD, communication is everything. But sometimes, even with the best intentions, we accidentally shut it down.

In this episode of the AT Parenting Survival Podcast, I’ll walk you through four common OCD communication stoppers—like punishing, over-rationalizing, or jumping straight into coaching—and explain why they backfire.

Learn how to foster open, supportive conversations about your child’s OCD that actually help your child feel heard and empowered.

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How to make OCD therapy a family lifestyle

You want to help your child manage their OCD, but what actually works? Exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy is the most effective treatment for OCD for people of all ages, and can help kids learn to reclaim their power from OCD. Family members play a key role in supporting a child’s progress, by supporting ERP techniques at home. Here’s how you can bring ERP into your family’s daily life and take on OCD as a team.

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Take care,
Natasha

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Hi! I'm Natasha Daniels

I’m a therapist who offers online support to parents raising kids with anxiety and/or OCD. Check out my podcast, Youtube, Courses & Membership. Sign up for my newsletter:

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