An Important Difference Between Reassurance for Anxiety vs OCD


Parents often hear the same questions from their child again and again, and it can be hard to know if answering is helping or making things worse. In this week's podcast episode, I break down the important difference between anxiety reassurance and OCD reassurance.

While anxiety and OCD reassurance can look similar on the surface, they serve very different purposes. Anxiety reassurance often comes from a child not trusting their ability to cope, while OCD reassurance acts as a compulsion that keeps the OCD cycle going. Knowing the difference can change how you respond.

If you are a parent who feels stuck answering the same worries, fears, or “what if” questions, this episode will help you understand when reassurance supports your child and when it unintentionally grows anxiety and OCD.

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Advice every parent of a child with OCD needs to hear

OCD can be confusing, and many parents feel unsure about how to provide support. Hearing from people who actually lived with OCD as kids can be grounding because they know firsthand what made a difference for them. Learn what people with OCD wish their parents had known when they were younger.


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Take care,
Natasha


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Hi! I'm Natasha Daniels

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